grumpy - // Quite agree Andy-Hughes the point I was trying to make was that being not much more than kids themselves it would be harder to come to terms with.Although I realise it would be dreadful for anyone. //
Indeed - the same conclusion I reached when I thought about your post, after posting mine, and just before I realised that my post looked somewhat pedantic and nit-picking, which I absolutely did not intend, and happily apologise if that is how it came across.