Is This Man Trying To Make Me Feel Bad?

[abbeylee90]

Right so the volunteer I messaged after the fight the bulldog I was walking was that man I been talking about on here. I messaged him after for advice as he had incidents with dogs before. I just briefly met up with him today he asked if I wanted to go to this lads weekend to waverly they on about and I said no he then I'm going to stop asking you places now as you always say no and latest I been out with him is 6pm and I stayed out till 4.30am on new years eve with my friends I don't understand why he would be expected to stay out with me that late.

[naomi24]

For goodness sake, abbey.  You got rid of him.  Why message him at all?  If you needed to talk to a volunteer there must be others there.  

[naomi24]

I don't know.  I didn't remove it.

[abbeylee90]

It's ok and not down there wasn't but others were supportive and said these things happen and the owner was just as much in the wrong for coming in my space.

Sounds like he will now.

[abbeylee90]

No wasn't you naomi

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, there must have been other people you could have asked for advice, not the man you've had various issues with for the past few years!

I have no idea whether he's trying to make you 'feel bad' - and if you have nothing to do with him, you will save yourself any further anguish.

[newmodarmy]

You've said no, well done. There's no point in worrying over what he was thinking. 

[barry1010]

Good!  He is going to stop asking you to go anywhere with him, that's a good thing.

He expected you to stay out late with him because in his mind you were a couple.  

Don't contact him again under any circumstances.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I'm sure you told us months ago that the man was going to stop asking you out as you always say no - and we hoped then that you'd finally get round to having nothing more to do with him!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[abbeylee90]

I didn't like I was going to go anywhere with him like to see the apes like he asked. 

I was scared people would be against me over it.

[newmodarmy]

//I didn't like I was going to go anywhere with him like to see the apes like he asked. //

You may want to re-read that and rephrase it more clearly

[barry1010]

You was scared people would be against you because of the dog attack?  Or because of this man

[cashier]

Why would any man invite a girl on a lads weekend away? Lads means men not women.

[abbeylee90]

I did have nothing to with him for abit and said no to going to the apes with him today.

[scorpiojo]

If you'd have said "no" to him months and months ago, instead of accepting his lifts, meals, outings, gifts and replying to his texts, you wouldn't still be asking us about him. 

[abbeylee90]

I Saif to him no it a lad things as he told who he was going with 

[abbeylee90]

*said 

[abbeylee90]

Well I accepted last gift as it was for my birthday 

[scorpiojo]

I don't believe this man thinks he and Abbey are a couple, or that he is "creepy" or "a stalker" as he has been labelled on here. Abbey, why don't you tell him about Answerbank, then he can read everything you've said about him and I'm sure he won't bother you anymore after that.