Is This Man Trying To Make Me Feel Bad?

[abbeylee90]

Right so the volunteer I messaged after the fight the bulldog I was walking was that man I been talking about on here. I messaged him after for advice as he had incidents with dogs before. I just briefly met up with him today he asked if I wanted to go to this lads weekend to waverly they on about and I said no he then I'm going to stop asking you places now as you always say no and latest I been out with him is 6pm and I stayed out till 4.30am on new years eve with my friends I don't understand why he would be expected to stay out with me that late.

[scorpiojo]

But Abbey corrected herself, and said what was making her uncomfortable was that she felt she would not get a boyfriend while spending time with this man.

[calmck]

At 16.14 Abbey says she accepted last gift as it was for her birthday!!!

[barry1010]

Was that this year's birthday or last year's?  We know he gave a gift last year.  

[Clementino]

Why on earth did you meet up with him today?

There was no need 

[davebro3]

Cut him off completely or marry him! Make you mind up...

[abbeylee90]

The younger guy im interested but he don't make an effort that why I'm thinking of blocking him. Some of the other volunteers got man's number and he would notice if I did.

[barry1010]

Did he give you a birthday present this year?

[scorpiojo]

But why think about blocking someone who's not interested, but not someone you allegedly don't want anything to do with?

[abbeylee90]

The man did bit guy I went on a date with didn't see him

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I'm sorry - that last post makes no sense at all!

[newmodarmy]

abbey's mixing up  her bits and buts.... I think she means the guy (from the dogs' home) bought her  apresent this year but the younger guy she recently dated and likes (the who doesn't contact her since she didn't take up the sleepover offer) didn't get her a present as she didn't see him.

 

[abbeylee90]

The man from home gave me a birthday present but one I went on date with didn't and makes no effort.

[newmodarmy]

Did you accept his birthday gift again? Was it something valuable again like last year's watch?

[abbeylee90]

It was chocolates

[smurfchops]

Abby don't use him for free gifts

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks - and Abbey, I'm sure you see now why people say you should mention who you're replying to!  

PS Were you expecting a birthday present after two dates? 

I'd have had to refuse the gift from the 'creepy, makes-me-uncomfortable guy' .

[abbeylee90]

No as it was weeks ago I seen him and he's never asked me on another date.

Was only chocolates 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I'd be reluctant to take a present (even if it was 'only' chocolates) from someone who had me so anxious all through 2023! You asked for advice all the time - when he wanted to meet up, when he wanted you to go out with him and his mates and so on. And I'm sure you reeled off quite a few reasons for not actually liking him!

[jourdain2]

It doesn't matter 'only chocolates' indeed!  It's a gift and you don't accept gifts except from friends or men you feel positive towards. 

When I was 16 a chap I didn't like sent me a huge box of chocs. They were rare in those days. My mum gave me the choice of sending it back or going out with him. That explained a lot to me about being grown up.  It cost me cash I could ill afford to send it back.

You are giving mixed messages to this chap and it is not kind or nice of you. It is time you grew up quite a lot. The world is not only about you wondering 

[Clementino]

I seriously think that Abbey is secretly enjoying the fact that the man wanted to meet her today to give her chocolates;  then she couldn't wait to tell us all in great detail here on Answerbank.

 

 

 

 

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