Can breaks work?

[katy86]

Firstly I just want to say Hi, I am new one here and I hope you can all give me some advice I havent got anyone to talk to and im going mad!!

Been with my fella 4 years, since January its not been too good we started arguing and bickering a lot over a girl from work he had been texting and phoning while I was asleep I found out and he admitted it but I just felt hurt and couldnt let it go turned out nothing was going on but he couldnt let it go I didnt trust him. Anyway things got better and we started to get back on track took me out for a nice meal last week and it was perfect. Two days later he says he is confused and that all the arguing has been playing on his mind and that he is confused and wants a break to decide how he feels and to see if he misses me? He said were not together but im not single.

My head is messed up, is this a polite way of ending things? Or can people do this and work things out? I always thought a break was so you could be with other people. I feel like all I can do is wait around but thats not fair.

HELP!!!