Trouble with women

[topogigo]

Why ladies, do you as a species all seem to exhibit a lack of self awareness when it comes to being absolutely horrible to your menfolk on a monthly basis? You know that you are going to have a bad week, as we all do occasionally, but does that mean that you have to inflict your ill humour on someone that you apparently love and care for?
My friends at work are in total agreement with my assertion that women that they look after and care for, will, with either no knowledge of their actions or willfully, cause them untold amounts of stress and anguish, possibly leading to a fragmentation of the relationship or in the least a loss of communication. How can women carry on in this manner, and don't try and deny that you do, without feeling at least a little guilt or taking steps to stop it? Men can sympathise with feeling out of sorts but not with downright nastyness. Pull your selves together women and stop hurting the ones you love. Your first hope for redemption may be to have the courage to admit that you do it, instead of imagining that it is ok just to have a laugh with your friends when you have done it as though discussing how unreasonable you have been to your partner is enough to be forgiven for it. Also don't try to hide the fact that you do it by attempting to make me look like i am being paranoid!!! This really goes on in most relationships, and don't think that i am saying that men have not got bad ways as well, of course they have, this time i am talking to the women!!!!!

[4getmenot]

pah!!

[4getmenot]

Sorry think you need to speak to your partner and not us, we are not all like that.

[confused79]

Well sounds as if you have had a barny with your missus.

Sometimes us women get fustrated with you men, and personally i dont think most men's commuications skills are much good.

Its all good you putting all this on here, but have you tried talking to your other half an letting her know how you feel.

Yeah maybe she might bite your head off, but there may be a good valid reason for it.

You just try and be a women for just a day then maybe you will understand.

An as for men having bad ways, talk about understatment! lol

[sleepy1]

men get gbs ..............................grumpy ba**ard syndrome most days of the month

[nuoyg]

That was the longest post I've ever started to read. I think I may have celebrated christmas...teehee...what are you on about man?!!

[cazzz1975]

of course men are these helpless pups who dont have any faults whatsoever!, okay some women become the devil itself at certain times of the month, sadly its a hormonal thing that cannot be controlled, much like a mans urge to stare at everything with b00bs.

however our issues are out of our control. what are mens excuses for their more dubious habits?

[888sally888]

You should see my old man when there is a ful moon - he gets away lightly!!

[topogigo]

I knew the ladies would refuse to be honest and admit to the way they act, it was predictable that someone would say that men have faults too, of course they do, I have pointed out what women do, and no one will put their hands up to it. Merely pointing out that men have bad days as well is only done to avoid the question, it is like saying stealing is ok coz someone else does it. Stick to the subject.
I do not have a partner anymore, when i did she would refuse to discuss the problem when it was happening and denied it when it wasn't. I had the same story from my friends, it is alright making it into a joke because most of the times the moods revolve around absolutely absurd notions, but people live very unhappy lives because of the actions of their partners, will the women do something about their bit at least instead of saying it is a hormonal thing and expecting to get away with it, they are still responsible for their actions!
So if you want a list of mens faults i am sure we can compile one, in the mean time ladies address your own!!!

[Markandshez]

PMS - women get it, men suffer from it. Thats the way of the world - accept it.

Just as men get Arrogant **** Syndrome that women have to put up with

[xhxmxsx]

i assume that 'on a monthly basis' is your reference to our time of the month, i'll admit i am very easy to wind up and aggitate when it's that time for me and i will take it out on my fiance, then 5 mins later realise what ive done and apologise, the same way when he has a bad day at work he will lose his cool with me and then 5 mins later he will apologise, i think that with posting a question like this will open a can of worms so to speak and if it was referring to our time of the month unless you have a womb i dont think any man will understand

[Champagne]

I'm going to let you in on a little secret gigo....

There is no such thing as pms or pmt. It's actually one big conspiracy that all us wimin are in on. It's gives us the freedom one week of every month to be a complete byatch and belittle men and give them the grief that they deserve. Oh, and sometimes it can even clear us of murder.

"Yes I did stab him 32 times in the jugular with a garden fork, your Honour, but I had my period."

Don't tell anyone though, will ya? Otherwise I'll take my next monthly out on you!!

[priorylisa]

A very brave and dangerous question!. I will fully admit that i get very kranky. Argumentatitve and generally stressed.Also my libido changes so i either want to rape hubby or want to keep well away not even wanting a kiss.
Now if i thought about it i would maybe be able to think before i struck! but.. having the monthly cycle takes a LOT out of me. Feeling weepy, bloated, dirty, unlovable. It plays tricks with my head as the hormones race. I know itsnot fair to take it out on you guys but then when you are pi**ed off who do you take it out on? So in genteral us women cant actually help being the way we are because we feel like **** when we are'on'. A little understanding would go a very long way.
Instead of arguing or ignoring your parner at these times, maybe just let her know you are there for her.
Hope this helps you
peace and love x