Should i give him a chance?

[Banana Boat]

About a month ago i met a lovey guy in a club. We spent the night together, but not in a sleazy one night stand kind of way. Up until now he's been txt me saying how much he likes me and cant wait to see me again, but as he's been working away we havn't been able to meet up yet. We arranged to meet this sat night just gone, I emailed him the day before, asking if we were still meetin. I'v heard nothing from him since. I know his mate who last night told me that this guy really likes me but he has had his phone cut off (which i know is true) and that he has no internet access for the time being, which is why he couldnt contact me. Im really annoyed and think he should of made an effofrrt to find a way to contact me but his mate kept saying how he really does like me & has been ranting & raving about me, and that i shuld phone him cos he can only recieve calls. Should i give him a chance? I do wanna see him again, but i dont wanna be messed around, and other than this, he does seem like a really decent guy.

[mrs_overall]

Hmmm. Has he never heard of public telephones? Do none of his friends have telephones? Can he write letters?
If he was as keen on you as his friend says he is, he would have been in touch.
Call me cynical but I think both him & his friend are stringing you along.
If I was in your shoes I wouldn't chase after him by phoning him. If he's so keen he'll find you.

[Rosenicola]

Hi BB,

I th9ink Mrs-Overall is right...

Let him contact you if he's keen.. I'm sure he will.. Don't chase after him..

If he wants to contact you in any way, he will find away..

Goodluck and keep yer pride :-)xxx

[sherminator]

oh yes the bloke always has to do the running.......my advice to him would be to go for someone that wont play games with him

if you want to speak to him call him!

[lizzydrippin]

Don't call him! why should you? he broke the arrangement without even bothering to contact you when you know that with abit of effort he could have, its nothing to do with 'playing games' is it? if you feel you want to give him the benefit of the doubt then give his mate your number to pass on to him. If he rings,great, if he doesn't then Im afraid its him thats playing the games. Good Luck.

[kyra16]

banana boat: don't even bother. so what if his cells' off..there's plenty of other ways he could call. like you said he shoulda made the effort to contact you. he's playin w you.