why???

[Joy11]

Do some people come on and type a really inflamatory answer to a thread that when challenged...... they are nowhere to be found, I'm not talking just about something I may have posted, although it has happened a couple of times, but when you go through the sometimes, very interesting stuff, there they are, when I refer to inflamatory, I don't mean answers that have their own depth, debate is good, you can take on board each persons point of view, no, I mean the downright rude and belligerent answers..... I wonder if these people trawl and just type "nasties" then go on their sad little way...lol

[Bbbananas]

Hello Joy!!
I agree - a lot of rude peeps on here.

[rinkins]

I've noticed it has got quite bad lately. Why?! Why indeed?

[tamirra]

Joy, i know exactly what you mean, it has happened to me on many occasions it makes me feel why do i bother helping people or posting to try to get a little insight. x

[Bbbananas]

... but mostly nmice people - especially the ladies!
Just take no notice of the abusive ones. It's hard sometimes though I must admit.

[Bbbananas]

that should have said nice people, not mice people!
Anyway - we're getting your thread a-rolling along very nicely now?!!!

[no-knowledge]

squeak-squeak

[Joy11]

lol, I have just enlighted JJ to the Geordie "speak" and she's gona use it in her post.lol, I know the nice peeps and that's all that really matters innit?

[Joy11]

that should have read enlightened...OMG we are all at it!

[afcjan]

Joy, I have been a victim also. I also cant stand those long answers with all that space between them. so stupid.

i dont come on here as much as I used to because of that.

most of the nice people are on Facebook now.

[Bbbananas]

...and afcjan is a very nice person ;-)

[afcjan]

and so is sallabananas....xxxxx


she stood up for me once against a very unpleasant attack.

:-))))))

[Bbbananas]

You're welcome. I am usually a very placid person jan, but I don't like bullies.

[no-knowledge]

2min ago by JockSporran
please answer question below this
in Society & Culture2min ago by
afcjan
why???
in ChatterBank
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made me laugh anyway.

[Sasha-2008]

Morning all,

i know what you mean. Tho y-day I wrote a comment that got read the wrong way coz people started to bitch at me.

I have just said sorry on the tread now but really didn't mean it the way it was read.

:(

[Joy11]

it took a bit'o time before I felt "accepted" but I understood why, people come and go the whole time, the ones that stay get to know each others little foibles, but when the baddies strike it does nowt for your self-esteem....lol
I was not aware of Lynsy's age when I was text-speak attacked by her yesterday, so I guess you must turn the other cheek with one so young? so I thank Rufus and I think, NK for bringing this to my attention.
In general the people in here have been warm and friendly, thank you.

[rinkins]

I know what you mean Joy, I have not been on here that long either. I only come on here during the day. I posted a question one evening once and got totally and unnecessarily shot down in flames by someone whose answers then disappeared. But I took it personally and felt a bit upset. Mostly people seem nice on here, including you! Just ignore the nasty ones.

[Joy11]

thank you rinkins, we cut and we bleed I guess, but I could never see myself going for ones juglar like some

[B00]

Ahhh, you'll soon get into the swing of it Joy- a cutting remark here, a smidge of sarcasm there, and before ya know it, you're classed as a grumpy cow.

But be warned, that crown of Grumpiest Cow is part owned by me and China Doll, we take great umbrage at anyone trying to nick it.

[Bbbananas]

Can I be a grumpy calf then?
Or a miserable sow?