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Is this rude or am I being insensitive?
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I'll condense this bit: A year ago I befriended a woman online who's daughter died 2 years ago,she was being harassed and bullied by a gang of women on a website she went on,2 invited themselves to the funeral and then reported back to the rest of the gang who from the day of the funeral hounded her saying the most vile things ever.Naturally I was outraged at this and offered her support and we became "cyber friends". We exchanged Xmas presents,and at the beginning of the week it was her birthday so I sent her a Moonpig card (it came a day late) and a cream tea by post.She wasn't in when the postie bought it and seems uninterested in picking it up.I hinted at the fact it would go off,but she still didn't .The thing that is bugging me,she didn't thank me for the card or present,and when I asked if she like the card she said "I got your card if that's what you mean". Am I asking too much expecting a thank you or a bit of enthusiasm?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.ooh Riss that does seem a little odd...
Maybe she is indeed an bit of an odd one! We all know one afterall!
If it really is a bee in your bonnet.. and you are not precious about the relationship.. then you could send a nicely worded email explaining that you are skint but still wanted to send her a token gift she would appreciate - just to let her know she has a friend in you and someone who cares - but that you dont feel that it was appreciated and you are a little hurt and confused as to why!
be careful how you word it - as you know how emails can be misconstrued!
it may end in her getting humpy and cutting you off... but if you aren't that bothered at least you may find out why she is like that!!!
We love you though!!!!
mwaaa
Maybe she is indeed an bit of an odd one! We all know one afterall!
If it really is a bee in your bonnet.. and you are not precious about the relationship.. then you could send a nicely worded email explaining that you are skint but still wanted to send her a token gift she would appreciate - just to let her know she has a friend in you and someone who cares - but that you dont feel that it was appreciated and you are a little hurt and confused as to why!
be careful how you word it - as you know how emails can be misconstrued!
it may end in her getting humpy and cutting you off... but if you aren't that bothered at least you may find out why she is like that!!!
We love you though!!!!
mwaaa
Riss - what a lovely lady you sound - reading your post - I think this woman is very rude - grieving or not - it does'nt cost nowt to say 'thank you'.
Sounds like she is obsessed with these horrible other women - I would back off and see what happens. Cyber friends may not always be what you want them to be.
Sounds like she is obsessed with these horrible other women - I would back off and see what happens. Cyber friends may not always be what you want them to be.