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My daughter has had a long distance relationship with a lovely man. They have been together for 5 years. At last the time is finally right for them to move in together. She is quite happy to move 300 miles away from home and get a job in his neck of the woods and start their lives properly, together.
He has suddenly announced that he is thinking about moving in with a "gay" friend of his and has asked her to get a flat of her own so that they could see each other regularly. He says he is worried that they might "not get on" if they lived together.
They are both really happy when they go away on holidays together and love each other.
She is feeling like she's had a kick in the teeth and that after 5 years, they know each other well enough and love each other enough now to make this commitment. She is coming up to 30 years of age and he is 29.
Do you think she should call it a day, or let her life waffle on and quite possibly waste more years of her life?
He has suddenly announced that he is thinking about moving in with a "gay" friend of his and has asked her to get a flat of her own so that they could see each other regularly. He says he is worried that they might "not get on" if they lived together.
They are both really happy when they go away on holidays together and love each other.
She is feeling like she's had a kick in the teeth and that after 5 years, they know each other well enough and love each other enough now to make this commitment. She is coming up to 30 years of age and he is 29.
Do you think she should call it a day, or let her life waffle on and quite possibly waste more years of her life?
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Ignore sqad. He gets a bit grumpy at this time of day, until he's had his siesta.
Sqad, behave!
Long distance relationships can work. I'm in one myself. But you need to be quite certain of how you feel about the other person. Especially if you are contemplating taking the relationship any further.
It sounds like this relationship could be a bit too much "one way"?
Ignore sqad. He gets a bit grumpy at this time of day, until he's had his siesta.
Sqad, behave!
Long distance relationships can work. I'm in one myself. But you need to be quite certain of how you feel about the other person. Especially if you are contemplating taking the relationship any further.
It sounds like this relationship could be a bit too much "one way"?
Sceptre, I think she should stay where she is and not commit to a man who perhaps is uncertain of his sexuality. Is he gently letting her down? perhaps. Or is he just having cold feet about getting serious with someone? If this was the case then why move in with his male freind (gay or otherwise?) . To me the message he's giving is tht he's not ready for her to move in with him and maybe never will be. He could be Gay, I know 2 men who 'came out' one after 10 years of marriage and the father of 2 children, the other age 45 with 20 years of marriage and three children. I would advise her to sit down with him and have 'the conversation' this needs to be brought out into the open and her boyfriend may actually feel a sense of relief if she knows and can accept that he is Gay or Bi-Sexual.
