Blind Date

[Tweetybird28]

I went on a breakfast blind date yesterday morning and we both got on really well. I do like him and would love to get to know him better. he did say at the end of the date that he would like to see me again, but Im not sure if he meant it. I just have a feeling he said just that for the sake of it. I did text him this morning and he replied back a couple of hours later, just asking me what I was up to. Do you think I should just let him get in touch with me? I really want to see him again. What should I do?

[nuoyg]

If you've got nothing to lose then I'd go for it - if he didn't like you then I'm sure he wouldn't have texted you. Plus you know guys, they never like to give anything away so he's probabaly just as keen as you are. Did you reply to his text asking what you're up to? And if you did, did he then reply?

If it was me I'd see what he's like to text chat to, and if he is pretty decent but doesn't mention a date again (say by Wednesday), I think I'd mention it - perhaps in a jokey way - and if his reaction wasn't positive then I'd let him get on with himself and know it's his loss!!

[Tweetybird28]

I did reply to his text, but I still have no response. I dont want to seem to eager. I work shift work and Im off this weekend coming, and would like to meet him then, because I may not get a chance after that. Before we met, we text and chatted to each other for about two weeks. Maybe I should wait till midweek and see if I hear from him. But what would I say?

[behappy87]

I agree with nuoyg - I don't think he'd text you asking what you were up to if he wasn't interested! I'd wait until you've got his next text back and see what he says...if he doesn't mention another date, why don't you just ask what he's up to this weekend? Remember he did say he'd like to see you again...I don't think a guy would bother saying that if it weren't true! Good luck!

[Tweetybird28]

Dont forget guys, I did text him first this morning. Maybe he felt obliged to text me back! Anyways, maybe you guys are right. I think Im probably being to negative. I'll wait till midweek and see if I hear from him, if not I'll call him. Thanks guys. I'll let you know what happens

[~Wingnut~]

Hey Tweety! :o)
He may be worrying the same as you! Maybe he is thinking that he doesn't want to appear too keen incase he scares you off so that's why he is acting a little cool.

Hope it works out for you :o)

[~max~]

Ok, I'm going to be the devil's advocate here....lol
Maybe he's a nice guy, and felt that he "owed" you a text, asking how you were and all, and he likes you but not in "that way"....It is still a possibility!
In any case, I wouldn't text him again until he makes contact. Men like the chase. I hope it all works out for you! :O)

[Tweetybird28]

Thanks for the advice ~max~. I was thinking the same as you. Maybe he's just being polite. I have decided Im going to let him get in touch with me (I just hope he calls...lol)

[~max~]

I'm sure he will hun! :O)
I'm just like that.....If you think the worst is gonna happen, you can never be disappointed! lol Always the pessimist, me....;O)

[redhead23]

hi yer i would sit back now and let him do the chasing i think it sounds good though , he did not have to txt u back !

[mangosam]

Go on you might as well get to know him. And get in contact with him it could be good in the long run. Never asume that he wants to know you more because then it may result in asuming more vital elements as the relationship progresses. Most important thing is that you have fun. Good Luck

[Sasha13]

NNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! Don't text him again - let him come to you. You've sent him one text - if he doesn't text you next then he just isn't interested!! That being said, I hope he does text you back! x

[Tweetybird28]

Thanks for all the advice guys. The guy has been texting me here and there, but I've decided not to keep in touch with him. One of the guys I work with asked me out a few days ago, so we're going out this weekend :)