what you dont know doesnt hurt you

[leanne_1987]

anyone agree, would you rather knwo the truth and get hurt or be left in the dark

[boxtops]

It depends entirely on what it's about.

[leanne_1987]

if u read my other posts u'll see what im talking about

[B00]

Gawd, we have to answer your question AND do some detective work? Isn't that a bit too much like hard work for a Wednesday tea time?

[boxtops]

Now I've read your other thread - yes, I'd want to know.

[B00]

Well your previous post, mentioned a previous post, and i lost the will to live a bit after that- sorry.

Can we just have a synopsis?

[B00]

lol, true, ok, gizza clue leanne?

[boxtops]

Synopsis - one man, two women, facebook. Nuff said.

[leanne_1987]

haha this is my life, complicated!! found out my now ex has been back with his kids mum for the last week, neither of us knew about each other and we've had a nice conversation today about what a scum bag he is, apparently hes done it to her 7 times before! thing is i really liked him, all blokes mess me about i'm sick of it, seriously thought he was different!

[jno]

oh, a threesome, boxy? Lot of poling, presumably. Anyway, I'd sooner know stuff than not know it.

[jno]

poling? poking.

There you are then, leanne, you're better off knowing. This could have gone on forever and what a mug you'd feel when you found out on your 50th birthday.

[B00]

Ahhh, 'nuff said!

Think of it as a lucky escape then Leanne. And in this case, yes you were better off knowing. Let him go leach off someone else, you (probably!) deserve better.

[boxtops]

Well shot of him, then leanne - sometimes snooping pays off ;-)

[jno]

what's even worse is if you're the only one who doesn't know. Knowledge is power.

[leanne_1987]

he is obviously my now ex, he wasnt yesterday lol, his boys mum said hes done it lots before, thing is before i met him i suffered from really bad depression, meeting him i got alot better as i was happy, i'm scared of gettig depressed again

[boxtops]

No you won't leanne - you'll be joyful that you're not being fooled or taken for a ride any more. Keep coming on here, we'll keep you going!