My husband and I started trying for a baby last April. I got pregnant in July and had an early miscarriage in August. I became pregnant again late last year and miscarried again New Years eve - that time i was about 3 months.
We started trying again in February of this year and still waiting for a positive result. Im usually very upbeat and im very optimistic, but this month i really thought i was pregnant to find out i wasnt, and it just seems a huge huge waiting came. Im struggling a bit wondering if it will ever happen and if it does the chances of everything going ok for a third time. I am 32 years old so mindful i dont have as much time as if i was only in my 20's. Meanwhile everyone around me continues to have babies,and becuase we have been married a year everyones always asking when we will have a baby which makes it more difficult. Close family know what happended last year but i didnt tell work which has made it harder as im not myself at the moment and just feel like i have a huge cloud hanging over me. For anyone else who has been in similar situation i would be interested to hear how you kept going every month when all you want is a baby? I know there is other stuff in life but it doesnt seem like that at the moment...
And if it doesn't happen you will have wasted all those months.....go out, have fun, build a career...just in case chances are things will be fine with time
After having 2 miscarriages so soon after the other, have you seeked medical advice and maybe asked them whats going on. I'm not sure of the procedure, but I would maybe see them.
As posters have stated above, just relax and it will happen evetually. you can get pregnant and the time will come where a healthy baby will come.
Lylabellablueye - yes after the 2nd one i did see my Doctor, and they were not overally concearned. The first MC was a very early one, so early in that if i hadnt of taken a test i probable would have never have known. They said if i were to experience a 3rd MC then they can look into doing tests etc but for now, based on my age and health they are not worried. Just a wwiting came i guess - hopefully 3rd time lucky :)