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Yes Captain2. Thanks to His Nibs who came round earlier. He was brilliant with her. He apologised for not taking greater care of me and promised he would do better in future. it was the message she wanted to hear. I don't think I did (he is, after all, a bit younger than I am) but it was absolutely the right thing to say today. And, of course, she is as fond of him as I am. So, yes I think all is well . Though she hasn't yet said anything about bedtimes. Maybe she'll still turn that screw a bit tighter.
Thanks for asking
steven