Split with bf

[sarah-london]

Hi all. Back for some advice. Just split with a guy. I won't bore you all with the ins and outs but just a few key things to set your brains thinking. Met this guy and we both decided just to see each other as we both had holidays planned. If after hols we both felt the same, game on. It was me who bought this up and we both agreed. On return from our holidays everything great! We both txt during our hols and missed each other. A few days after being home he asked me to be his gf. I was happy. That same weekend I met his mum and all was great! I challenged him that following week about a message I wasn't happy about on Facebook, we talked it through and all was good again. He also said at this time that he didnt know how i felt about him because i didnt show/tell him. so i make an effort to take this on board and start sending him txts telling him i was looking forward to seeing him and initiating hand holding etc instead of waiting for him to do it. A week later and he dumps me! The reason? I like him more than he likes me. Don't get it? He told me he felt insecure cos I don't share feelings and then when I do I scare him. Any guys thoughts? What do I do now? If anything?! Thanks.

[friedgreentomato]

Get on with life.

[boxtops]

Sounds like a guy not ready for a relationship, when you agreed it scared him. I'd leave it, don't do anything. If he likes you enough, he'll get in touch.

[Sqad]

\\\ I like him more than he likes me.\\\

You need look no further.

[friedgreentomato]

Or box he has decided she is too much hard work!!

[FredPuli43]

Move on.It happens to all of us [waits for "Speak for yourself, Fred!"] . But it does.