Baby Arrival Is Getting Closer.....

[phleb]

and i'm getting so nervous, a little scared because I had to go in the other day due to water leakage!!! (don't worry all was fine) and I waited 3 and a half hours to be seen, only when I said I was leaving they decided to assess me via the Doctor. This gave me a taster of what the care is actually like there, and now I feel more anxious than ever. The care is rubbish, and the midwifes were sat drinking coffee...yes they are allowed a break, but I would think they would take turns.

I have no birth plan, due to do this on 17th jan with my midwife. I am feeling absolutely rubbish. The hubby that is so horrible to me has cleaned all the bedroom, had it repainted and newly carpeted>why is he being so nice?? he's even carpeted stairs again. my kids are so excited, they want a day off school when baby comes lol.

[ferlew]

Hopefully, he has realised how lucky he is to have you Phleb.
Thoughts will be with you.

[Tilly2]

Good luck with it all, phleb.

[sherrardk]

Phleb, no point being anxious - the baby is coming out one way or another. You have already had two, you know what to expect and that it will be a lot easier if you relax. As for hubby, don't question it at the moment, just enjoy it for what it is.

[leahbee]

So sorry that you are not getting the care you deserve from the "proffesionals".
You must complain if you are not satisfied .
Glad your husband is doing his bit and I can imagine how excited your other children are.
The last few weeks are always the most nerve wracking as you will know but I am sure that everything will turn out well for you.
Keep your chin up.