Im Gutted

[nailit]

I posted a few weeks ago something along the lines of ''Smoking, is it worth it?''
and mentioned my sisters husband who gave up years ago but has suffered multiple complications since.
Mum just rang me, crying, to tell me that he died not long ago.
Myself and all the family were very fond of him. A bloke that adored my sister for the 40+ years that they were married and wouldnt hurt a bloody fly.
Died too soon through smoking...
Im gutted!

[marval]

I am very sorry to hear that Nailit, it is proof smoking is not worth it.

[jno]

a doctor once said to me "I never heard a single person dying of cancer saying 'I wish I'd smoked more'." Though I suspect doctors tell everyone that.

Sorry to hear of your family's loss, nailit.

[rowanwitch]

It's such a waste, I am sorry especially for your sister, losing someone to smoking related disease. is so much worse if he'd given up. Your family are having such a had time right now. You are all in my thoughts.

[Tilly2]

I am so sorry. How awful for you all. Nothing much more I can say except, 'Take care and look out for your sister.'

[Arksided]

Sorry for your loss Nailit.

[Mamyalynne]

Condolences to all family Nailit.x

[Patsy33]

Still a shock to you Nailit, even though you were aware of his poor health. All the more sad knowing what a sweet,harmless man he was. So sorry. x

[maggiebee]

Hard to bear nailit, so sorry for your loss. Condolences to all the family.

[nailit]

Thanks all.
Mums going downhill fast as well. Dont think that 2020 will be the best year ever.
Take it as it comes I guess.
Cried a bit tonight...

[johnny.5]

sorry to read this nailit
keep strong

[calmck]

My condolences. Hope your mum is following the advice for the elderly at this time and keeps well.

[Bobbisox1]

Nailit I’m so sorry for your family’s loss, take care x

[pastafreak]

Condolences to you Nailit, and to your family.

[Butterbun]

My condolences to all.

[Georgiesmum]

Oh nailit, Im so sorry to hear your very sad news.Id like to be there to give you a big hug, its been a terrible shock for you and all the family. Take care xxx

[naomi24]

x

[Rosie29]

So sorry Nailit. My condolences to you and your family. X

[Theland]

Very sorry Nailit.
I am disabled through smoking all my life.
A bloody idiot.
Paying for it now.
Again, really sorry mate.

[emmie]

so sorry to hear this, my mum died of lung cancer though she had given up smoking years before

[nailit]

Thanks all, much appreciated.
As much as I loved my brother in law my concern is for my mum and my sister who are both, understandably, devastated.
A few weeks ago my BIL said that he cursed the day that he ever picked up a cigarette. Ive got my own addictions but it seems that some addictions are readily available via shops, while other addictions are deemed illegal because they are detrimental to health.
The mind boggles!
Thanks anyway all,