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How Do I Know He’s The Right One For Me?
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I’ve been on 3 dates in the last week with this guy I’ve been speaking to for three months, he’s everything I want in someone and the most amazing person I’ve ever met, but I don’t know how to know my connection with him is the best I’ll get with anyone despite having a good one with him. He has all the traits I want in someone all besides one which is laughing 24/7 with someone, I always say I want this with someone as I love it, we do laugh of course and I enjoy my time with him I just don’t get that and I don’t feel giddy which I’ve also felt like in the past with people, are you meant to feel giddy? Or doesn’t it matter. I don’t know if some of it is comparing too much to my ex despite the fact I’d never wanna get back with him as he did me wrong, but we had an amazing connection so I think it’s easy to compare because of that, this guy has so many traits he did not though it’s just that that’s missing I feel, am I putting too much emphasis on this As no one is going to be the same? I also get cold feet over every situation in life and I struggle making decisions so much as I have adhd which makes this really difficult. I also have ran away from people the last three years especially as I have been cheated on and emotionally manipulated in the past so I don’t know if that makes my cold feet worse as I get severe anxiety around relationships, he is the first person I have gone on dates with since my ex because of this, however I feel so comfortable around him and he is everything I want in someone despite that one trait I feel is missing, I also put a lot of pressure on myself to find the right person straight away too which probably doesn’t help, how do I know if it’s cold feet or if he just isn’t the perfect match for me? Also are you meant to feel giddy?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Seriously? If my child said they wanted a relationship where they laughed 24/7 I'd give them a reality check.
No matter how well you get on with a partner life will always throw things at you that will make you unhappy.
What is needed is love, support and understanding....and laughter is a great bonus.
If the OP is 13 then they shouldn't be meeting up with people from the internet.
No matter how well you get on with a partner life will always throw things at you that will make you unhappy.
What is needed is love, support and understanding....and laughter is a great bonus.
If the OP is 13 then they shouldn't be meeting up with people from the internet.