When I saw the scene on The Crown where Diana Spencer entered a room containing the queen and other bigwigs and got the curtsying business wrong, I thought it was an invention by the producers to underline the nonsense of the monarchy.
Not a bit of it.
Peter Wilby, in his weekly 'First Thoughts' column in the New Statesman, relates this story. An elderly monarchist wanted to 'do her bit' after Diana Spencer was killed, so got an unpaid job at Kensington Palace dealing with the post and such like.
One day she was carrying a tray of tea and biscuits along a corridor when she encountered Princess Anne, and the protocol was to curtsy. The old woman didn't, fearful that she might drop her tea and biscuits.
Later that day, she was reprimanded by her superiors; Anne had reported her insubordination. The old women left the Palace immediately, foreswearing any future support for the monarchy or any of their hangers-on.
No she is not. Have you ever met her? I have, on numerous occasions at Horse Events when she was married to Mark Phillips. She could not be less Royal if she tried. Unfortunately, like many, she has a rather fierce 'resting' face.
Allen believes all he sees if it suits his agenda - including the drama of television dramas. Diana was born into the aristocracy. Her childhood playmates included the queen’s children. She was aware of etiquette.
Anne, having refused titles for her children, can’t be that hung up on protocol.
Mr Em met her on many occasions and always said she was engaged with the subject matter in question, and that she always seemed polite and hard working.
I once met (very briefly) Princess Anne years ago as she was driving her horsebox in a country lane in North Devon.
I can't say from such a short meeting of course, but I'd be very surprised if this story is accurate.
I think the old relative might have meant Princess Margaret.
That would be more likely.
This curtsying story seems unlikely.
You'll all remember the account of a commoner dining with the Royals who drank from his finger bowl. The king promptly did the same, as did the rest of the diners. The Royals have impeccable manners and effortlessly put us lesser mortals at ease.
Read an article many years ago (and one that I remember posting on here years ago) by one of her ex household officials that stated that she had ate more spit in her meals than any other royal.
Spitting into someone's meal is abborhant but says something about how her staff perceive her.