too old??

[andrea_h]

hi,

don't know if this is really the right place for this, but here goes.

I'm female, petite (5'1"), size 10-12 and almost 30!!.....my question is this, am I getting too old to follow the latest 'trends' .

Should I concentrate on finding a style that suits me and sticking with it or is it still ok to experiment with different fashions and styles. I have always had an interest in fashion (high street) and have a very ecclectic style - one day boho, one day punky, one day classic etc and don't follow any real pattern, just wear whatever I'm in the mood for on the day.

This week alone I've been out and bought items from about 4 different trends......skinny jeans, stripy top, polka dot shirt, white combat pants, red ballet pumps, city shorts...etc, etc, etc

I think my main problem is that I've lost weight recently and still haven't found what suit my new shape (size16-18 down to size 10-12).....but I really hate the idea of 'boring' clothes and can't help being drawn to 'young' fashions.

HELP!! Can someone send for Trinny & Susannah - I need a style makeover!!!!

[lady_p_gold]

Well I find that the Per Una range in M & S is different and yet not too young. I would say that the only no-nos are short skirts. I think you can be trendy without being too young, for instance there are some trendy modern blouses around that are very tight, but you can wear them just loose with a black T shirt underneath so you are still having the trendiness but without it being too tight .... and if you feel comfortable wearing things then just go for it that's what I say !!!

[_Louisa_]

At 30, you are definitely not too old! Look for clothes that suit you and show off your assets - experiment and have some fun!

[Betty Boop x]

Being in your late twenties is definatly not too old to follow the latest trends. I just think with trends everyone needs to be careful they don't got overboard and end up looking like a fashion victim. And lets be honest anyone of any age can go over the top with trends by trying to do too many all at once.

My advice is to buy lots of womans magazines such as Glamour and Cosmo, as these show you the trends, shows how they can be put together and where you can buy the clothes. Then take a whole day to go shopping and embrace your new figure. Try on lots and lots of clothes and take time to really look at each item and outfit you try on and decide if you think it suits you and if you feel confident and comfortable in it.

If a shape or colour doesn't suit you thats fine because you will know for next time. As you have a new figure you need to get used to what looks good now and make sure you see the new you in the mirror not the old you. This way you will start to see what suits your new figure and what you feel comfortable in.

Another idea is to go to somewhere like John Lewis as they have personal shoppers, which I'm sure is a free service. You just have to go in and book an appointment. Then they will stay with you while you try on loads of clothes and advice you as to what shapes and colours suit you - it is like having your own trinny and susannah! You don't even have to buy anything but you will get an honest opinion from someone who knows what they are talking about. Then you can use her tips when your shopping on your own.

So I say go for it! The most important thing is that you feel happy and confident in the clothes.

Happy shopping x

[Scarlett]

WEAR WHAT YOU FEEL LIKE WEARING. You should not consider age any reason to curb your clothes. Life is just too short !

[bobtheturkey]

depends if you are ugly or not if you are doesnt matter what you wear

[whiskeysheri]

Congratulations on your weight loss, andrea_h!

Any tips?

x

[andrea_h]

Thanks for your answers (except bob!!), I think I'll carry on doing what I'm doing - until my son is old enough to tell me off for being embarrasing!!

whiskeysheri - slimming world did it for me!!

A xXx

[wastedtalent]

Since when has "almost 30" been old? I'm 31 and still shop at Top Shop etc.......get a grip, go shopping and stop depressing me!

[angel-cake]

As said above, I would avoid short skirts and also too much pink stuff.

I'm 31 and wear more trendy clothes now than I did at 21!

Look how many stylish and fashionable women there are in their 30's - Jennifer Aniston, Sarah Jessica Parker, Cameron Diaz and then compare to women in their 20's - Britney Spears, Chantelle (BB), Christina Aguilera.

I know who I would rather look like!

I think when you reach late 20's you realise what suits you and generally know what to avoid.

Another no-no I would say is logo t-shirts. Other than that though go-for-it girl !!!

[Altosruleok]

well i'm 52 and i'm not too old. and i never shall be either. i reckon you need to find a friendly teenager who always manages to look good herself (i use my daughter) and either take her shopping with you or buy everything on appro for her to look at when you get home. that way you'll definitely get it right.
happy shopping!!
congrats on the weight loss, by the way - what a wonderful excuse to break the bank!!

altosruleok

[gessoo]

Oh Gosh! I'm almost 60 and dress to please myself and like to dress fashionably.

Some trendy clothes can suit all ages, depending on your size and shape and your personality. Some of the boho stuff around really suits older ladies.

Just yesterday, I saw a really old lady (probably about 80) in a long skirt, boots a smock top and a long plait. She looked just great to me - she dressed according to her personality.

I agree older legs don't look good in mini skirts or hot pants, but most fashions can be adapted to suit the wearer.

If you feel good about yourself then that's all that matters.

[Pippa68]

I was just gonna ask ~ what age is too old??? I am 38 & hope I am not over the hill yet!