Heat broken

[girl_lesbian]

I have just found out my ex has started seeing soemone new. i read her profile on the friends reunited website because she had updated it. It has hit me like a ton of bricks. We were together 6 and a half years and broke up only 3 months ago! I don't understand why I am so hurt - I am seeing someone new myself so I know this is really hypocritical of me. The truth is I still think about my ex everyday and I guess part of me still loves her. i know I did the right thing ending our relationship I don't want her back and my new partner is wonderful. Any ideas why I'm feeling so hurt and how can I get passed this because all I can picture is her and this new mystery woman in my head. Please help save my sanity!

[Wee Kaz]

It's only natural to feel something when your ex after 6 years has a new parter but the fact that you have a new parter too shows that you are trying to move on. I still often think about my ex and that was over 8 years ago, it's only natural I think and only time and you moving on will help I'm afraid.

[sexyairhead]

I know how you feel.My girlfriend split up with me a few days ago(we are now back together).If she is like that then she is not worth bothering with.There are plenty more pebbles on the beach and some are young pretty and blonde! You are hurt because you are remembering the good times not what the realitly is.Start to see the realitly and remember time is a good healer!

[China Doll]

Give yourself a break sweetheart it's only been 3 months, I would feel exactly the same and I can't stand my ex!

This person was a massive part of your life for a long time and I bet you had stuff planned for the future and about how things were going to be. Even though you're both moving on that stuff is still going to be part of you for a while.

You are perfectly sane, frankly if after six years you weren't a bit upset by this I'd worry more. Perhaps give yourself the night off, curl with a glass of wine, have a good cry and then put on some really cheerful songs... and remember all the good things you have in your life still.

Chin up hun, you'll be ok xx

[girl_lesbian]

Thanks, I guess I just need to know that how I feel is normal! Had a little cry and now I'm going to try not to think about it and focus on my fab new girl :-)