End of the road ?

[Shady Lady]

Hi everyone. I am not a new user. I am in disguise so my husbansd doesn't read this. I have a big problem which I need help with and I don't want him to see my name to this. So here's the story. He's been acting suspicious for a while now , hiding the screen on our computer when I walk past and laughing saying do you mind ? When I asked what he had to hide he said nothing but I wouldn't like it if he hung over my shoulder when on here. Well he left the page open to the footy website he uses and was still logged in. Had two choices , ignore or read ......... I read his posts. In one he said that a certain song held loads of memories for him .... reminded him of a certain wee nurse ie his ex before me. Wasn't a post he was answering , was one he had started so he went out of his way to mention it. I jokingly asked him about it and he lost the plot. Yelling at me that I had no right and I had invaded his privacy. I didn't hack into his emails or anything , it was on screen and ok I scrolled through them to read his but so what , it's a public forum ? I have nothing to hide on here so why should he? The thing is , we've also been sleeping in separate beds for months now ..... he says it's cos we need a new mattress and he can't get comfy. He sleeps on the couch. So how do I tackle these problems or should I walk away. He shows me no affection other than when he wants 'something' and barely even talks to me these days. Am I selling myself short or am I in the wrong ? Please help.