how do you meet a girl?

[ultraman]

most girls i know (not all of them ) but a good number of them seem to be into doing drugs or have some other problem or like to drink like this girl that i know from work
shes nice and very friendly to talk to but she has lots of problems and i know that i should stay away from her just talk to her but it seems that most girls i know (not all of them ) but some of them like guys who get into trouble or use drugs none of them seem to like guys who have jobs or just want to go out and have a good time that seems to be with just about every girl that i meet ( again not all of them) but a lot of them why is that?

[wiggal]

To be honest, i think your looking in the wrong places if most of the girls seem to be into drugs!
And as for having problems, who doesnt have problems? I have a good few of them, but i still manage to have a long term stead relationship with a man i plan to marry! (yes he does plan on marrying me to!)

I think it may be to do with the fact that females seem to show emotions and so on a lot more then males.

[efc]

So there are still some guys out there that have jobs and just want to go out and have a good time!
I can't find them, I thought the world was full of control freaks!
Ultraman - you sound like a lovely normal guy, don't change, you will find the right girl one day.

[mattie]

The frozen food section of your supermarket, take a basket or small trolley, and look puzzled, you are so obviously single, and you never know.

[bounceagain]

I agree with wiggal. You will get there eventually by not hanging out with people you dont particular like too. Its worked for me, Im happier than I have been for a while.