Personally I have no issue with a British identity: I was born in england with English, Welsh, Scottish and Irish great grandparents. And when we think about our nation's great heritage of empire, innovation and the arts we are as likely to be thinking about the efforts of Welsh, Scots and Irish 'Brits'.
However, I agree with the main thrust of the question and Gromit/Old Geezer: the current set up of Westminster and the other Assemblies is inconsistent and inequitable .
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