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I think I agree with OG's comments and must stand down from the podium to respectfully acknowledge that there is no evidence for life outside of our planet, regardless of the apparent abundance of comets carrying organic molecules in our solar system. The odd make more sense if we say intelligence is improbable in out Universe purely because we have only one source that it happened, and as such an improbable event in a galaxy of many stars and planets, in a Universe of many galaxies, the chances such an improbable event such as intelligence occurring, seems digestible...
@Jim360 - Your example of the lottery scenario seems to be to only bolster my argument. If the odds of getting the full set of numbers is 10^57 to 1, and only one ticket was bought for the draw and won, you conclude it an immensely unlikely occurrence. If though, as is the case, millions of tickets were bought for the draw, its much more likely that one will win.
And I have dragged you into speculative philosophical theory here but the laws of chance is a numbers game, the maths is undeniable. I respect without proof I may only ever be able to speculate, but the slow pace of space exploration dragging on the heels of governments who want to fight wars and bail out banks so executives offshore accounts remain open, I must try to advance my understanding of what COULD be.
I'm purely amazed by the minuscule tolerance levels of the constants to allow chemistry to become biology. No anthropic principle, the fact that any life can emerge is a wonderful thing irrespective of the emergence of intelligence and its peculiar, the chance creation of our hospitable Universe.
@LG - you're right about one thing. The fact I'm amazed by this improbable event, means I must accept that improbable means possible... However unlikely, it remains possible ;)