Conversations like this are always tricky because, basically, the future is unknowable, and what we don't know isn't knowable either (obviously). On the other hand, pointing out this out often seems to me to imply that all we need to do is wait long enough and what we think impossible now will turn out to be super easy, and barely an inconvenience, with future technology.
The best we can do is describe the present understanding, and emphasise that it is *only* the present understanding. Therefore, it's wrong to say "impossible", or "never", or "zero chance" or whatever, but it's also wrong to deduce from that that, in the future, all this is likely to be near-certain.
A separate point is that even making pronouncements about our present understanding are fraught with danger. I'm sure I'm not alone in having fallen for the "a little learning" trap, and make bold statements based on an incomplete understanding that turn out to be false. One example in this thread is the Drake Equation (DE). Put simply, there's no substance or predictive power in the DE at all: many of its inputs are based on conjecture rather than anything particularly solid, and in that sense the DE should be used not to resolve the debate about the existence or capabilities of alien life, but to stimulate it. In my opinion, then, TTT is misusing it by drawing any conclusions from the equation, or by stating that it "predicts" anything, or by using it to constrain the potential scientific achievements of hypothetical alien civilisations. The correct interpretation, in my view, is that the Drake Equation poses questions we need to ask, specifically:
-- how likely is life of any kind to form on a planet capable of supporting it?
-- how likely is it that intelligent life forms from that life?
-- how likely is it that intelligent life develops into scientifically-capable civilisations?
-- how long on average does a civilisation last?
There is not even a partial answer, that I am aware of, let alone a definitive one, to any of these questions. I'm minded myself to think that the stumbling block is question 2, but I don't think we have nearly enough information to decide at the moment.
I would still agree that, based on our current understanding, it is almost certain that we will be unable to converse with any alien life, and the physical barriers that appear to exist have to be understood. Our resident sceptic-in-exile tends to miss the importance of this point: whether or not it turns out to be possible and feasible to travel to and communicate with other stars, the challenge will only be overcome by accepting how difficult it is, and by building on our current understanding rather than ignoring it entirely, or rejecting it as irrelevant.