What your daughter is thinking is this: you need to do Measure the shortest and longest sides, then ADD them together, divide the answer by two, and then multiply that answer by Pi. The area of a CIRCLE is Pi x Diameter of circle. All that the above method does is averages the diameters to effectively create a circle. Which to be honest is good maths for an 11 year old, but is incorrect. As rojash posted in his link, it is seriously complicated, but here is an elliptical calculator to work our the circumference.
http://www.csgnetwork.com/circumellipse.html so just insert the values that your daughter suggested you measured in the first place.