Family must have heard over the years what her dreams are. She mightn't have had much time for herself,and a long weekend at something like a health hydro would be nice - a bit of pampering there, and most have a bargain day or two at certain times. Or she might like a camcorder so she can take shots of you all over the years ahead. The balloon ride is a lovely idea, but she might be scared. Daring things become more scary because we subconsciously become more worried about self-survival as we get on in life. If there is a party for her, it's good to get hold of people who were in her life at various points along it, people she hasn't seen (and would want to!) for a long time e.g. a long lost schoolfriend, early friends, someone only corresponded with, and so on. Whatever you choose I hope you all have a lovely time.