Boyfriends Mum

[CallieK]

Hello,

I need some advice please, my boyfriend has not spoken to his mum for 7 years since he was 15 when she had an affair and left him and his siblings who stayed with their dad, we have been together 3 and a half years and he has rarely mentioned her and made it clear there is no chance he wants to see or speak to her again.

His sister who I am fairly close to has just got a part time job in the same store as me and their mum comes in to see her quite often as they have only recently got back in touch, 3 weeks ago was my boyfriends birthday and she came into work with a gift and a card begging me to pass it on (I have never spoken to her before) I said I didnt think it was a good idea, she started crying saying it was killing her not knowing anything about her sons life I just said I was sorry.

The problem is she keeps coming back in mivering me to put her in touch with him I felt sorry for her at first but its kind of annoying me now. Its been about 5 times. How do I tell her to leave us alone. My boyfriend just said tell her to get lost I have tried politley but she keeps on coming into the store.

Any advice would be so grateful and I apologise it is so long winded.

Callie