cheating

[stribs1969]

how can i test my husband to see if he would cheat on me. its hard to work out as i never know exactly what pubs he will go to when out with brother and mates. any ideas

[rojash]

What a sad question!

[caz21]

You are asking for trouble if you do that! You obviously don't trust him! either that or you are very insecure! Sorry to say! May be you should just ask him!

[crete]

do you have any evidence he may be cheating on you or do you wish to set him up to see if he takes the bait ?

[Ethel]

What a horrid thing to do.

[ali_alic]

What if he isn't, but you set a trap and he's tempted. What a b*mmer.......

[4getmenot]

I'm sorry but why are you even with him, coz by the looks of it you dont trust him at all. How old are you???

[rogerr]

What if he did that to you--would you be so trustworthy or would you feel really hurt?

[redcrx]

Why would you risk it? What if he would never stray and finds out you tried to set him up? What if you did tempt him with someone else and he found them more attractive than you (perhaps more mature)? TBH id say you asking for trouble.

[Catso]

You're sick.

If you do this and he finds out, he'll do more than cheat on you. Byeee.

[nat_84]

gosh u lot are harsh.

She's obviously very insecure and confused, hence the reason she came onto this forum to ask for advice.

I'd just say that you need to talk to him and tell him how you're feeling, because somethings obviously going wrong somewhere down the line.

Dont test him because that'll only make things worse - there will be no good result whether he takes the bate or not.

Good luck and I hope you resolve things.x

[redcrx]

nat did you read the other question?

[4getmenot]

Bit harsh? I'd say checking up on someone is harsh, and yer you cant have seen other question coz I think we know you a bit better than to feel sorry for this person nat

[nat_84]

why is she a psycho or something?

[Pippa68]

I could understand it if you thought he was actually cheating on you. But to test to see if he would?

I reckon you might get an answer you don't like...

[4getmenot]

nat she first askes how she could check to see if he WOULD then she says how could she play a joke on him about him having an affair. Great relationship there

[nat_84]

lol.

Well we're bound to come across a few nutters online.

[Touareg-8]

Gonna be a great marridge lol

[baremission]

stop being so mean to stribs!

you've all got off the subject.
you could get a reaaly good private investigator and then he'd never know =)
bit OTT if theres nothing to go on though but if your realy worried about it...