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Any reasons why boy attacks girl(love related issue)?
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Boy and girl dated for long time. When boy propose girl, she simply says 'I just want you as a friend, I don't want to marry you. But boy can't digest this. He attacks girl(acid attacks even sometimes murder also). Is it a girl's fault that she had that much close relationship or it was boy's?..
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Too many men confuse love with ownership. Too often when a man tells a woman he loves her and wants to marry her, he means he claims ownership rights over her. In his eyes, this will give him the right to have intercourse with her whenever he wants, whether she wants it or not, the right to hit her and punish her when she does anything he doesn't like, the right to make...
20:55 Sun 29th May 2011
This sadly sounds like some of the reported incidents on the Indian subcontinent where it's suggested to a girl that she marries someone she doesn't want to marry, and she is burned or injured in some other way because she says no. I don't understand the last line of your question about "had that much close relationship" - but no, it is not the girl's fault that she declines the marriage offer, it iseems to be the families which can't handle the "disgrace" that she doesn't accept. This would be illegal here in the UK.
Too many men confuse love with ownership. Too often when a man tells a woman he loves her and wants to marry her, he means he claims ownership rights over her. In his eyes, this will give him the right to have intercourse with her whenever he wants, whether she wants it or not, the right to hit her and punish her when she does anything he doesn't like, the right to make her work for him - cook, clean, launder etc without his doing anything for her in return. Too often men think like this from near the beginning of an acquaintance - and any rejection is a hideous humiliation for the man, for which he has to get revenge in the most spectacular and horrible way, so the whole world can see what happens to women who reject men like him.
This is the way stalking happens - far more prevalent among men than among women. A man can't accept that a woman he wants doesn't want him. A man like this may have been intensely spoiled in childhood by both parents, giving him a "little emperor" complex - he develops delusions of grandeur and may develop morbid jealousy,a pathological/mental condition which cannot be treated and too often ends in murder
This is the way stalking happens - far more prevalent among men than among women. A man can't accept that a woman he wants doesn't want him. A man like this may have been intensely spoiled in childhood by both parents, giving him a "little emperor" complex - he develops delusions of grandeur and may develop morbid jealousy,a pathological/mental condition which cannot be treated and too often ends in murder
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