What could this mean???

[kawii23]

Well me and my bf have been going out for almost two months and today he messaged me on facebook saying he thinks we should break up and he feels bad because its over facebook, and then I asked him why and he said I dont know i dont want a girlfriend right now, but i still like you.

What could he mean by that. Why would he break up with me if he still likes me?

[Quassia]

Hope you're not too upset kawii ! Take care x

[kawii23]

I really don't like it that he did it over Facebook, but we might not break up but we probably will.

[Meg]

I met my husband 43 years ago, god help me!! No facebook then, we did it our way. Why do you have to keep in touch over internet sites? I have younger friends who meet partners on dating sites, sometimes it works for them, and older ones, they p!ss me off with their gereatric antics. Get yourself out to the local and meet people face to face.

[kawii23]

We go to school together. We barely talk on facebook. I didnt meet him on Facebook either.

[kawii23]

Thanks for the help. This is the first time we have ever had something like this come up, like we havent fought or anything.

[bunkmoreland]

Like this is just such a dud thread!! Dude For Funks Sake...getting a bit boring now!!

[jno]

at that age, I suspect it's exactly what he said: he thinks he's too young for a girlfriend. Not everyone's ready for a relationship at that age. It's good that he says he still likes you (though bad that he did it over FB) but you will have to decide if you are prepared to be just a friend.

[tigerlelly]

bunkmoreland: A bit harsh don't you think? They are only kids.

[kawii23]

Well i don't get why it matters that he still likes me?

[jno]

kawii, if you ever split up with someone acrimoniouosly it can hurt you badly. Splitting up peacefully is far better, believe me. Unlike some other posters, I doubt that he's simply found someone else. In the absence of any evidence to the contrary, I think he's just hesitating about getting into a relationship. This may change.

[kawii23]

what do you mean by getting into a relationship?

[askyourgran]

Kawii, you lads of 16 are really only beginning to know what they want. and he probably doesn't want to commit to anyone seriously yet. And he probably can't afford to have a gf. Be nice stay friends if poss. and don't be too upset. He will respect you for not being bitchy about it all. You'll find someone better anyway, there's loads of time,

[kawii23]

Best I can do is try to be friends, without it being awkward.

[kawii23]

i've heard that his sister trys to break people up... and she really mean.

[jno]

getting into a relationship = being boyfriend/girlfriend. He doesn't want a girlfriend right now, as he said.

Don't worry about his sister. He's responsible for his own actions; it doesn't matter whether it was his sister's idea or anyone's.

[TeztMethod]

Maybe he's busy and thinks that it'd be unfair to continue with you. I don't know. Give more information about him.

Or, and forgive me for saying this, cant help it, maybe he's just trolling'

[kawii23]

what do you mean by trolling?

[kawii23]

We actually haven't hung out, outside of school, because we both are really busy, so I mean maybe he thinks he's to busy

[joko]

he said he still likes you to be polite and so you didnt start worrying if there was wrong with you...

and by the sounds of it, you are already broken up...try to let it go...

[kawii23]

Yeah we broke up last night were apparently going to be "friends"