facebook ice breaker

[mauritiano]

Hiya everyone..thanks in advance for your help. I saw this really cute girl on facebook and sent her a friend request which she accepted. I now want to break the ice by sending her a nice first message(would really like to go out with her)..she lives in my area and we both go to the same university. Anyone with some good ideas?? please help..thanks again :)

[Eve]

Have you ever met her or have any lectures/seminars or similar in common?

[mauritiano]

Hi Jenna1978..no we don't have any lectures and have never met her before

[cazzz1975]

do you have any mutual friends?

[mauritiano]

yes we have a few cazzz1975

[boxtops]

I don't like this idea, I wouldn't accept as a friend on FB anyone that I didn't actually know.

[ummmm]

Boxy - For some facebook is just a dating site...

[sith123]

be yourself, say how are you, find out her interests but dont be to pushy as she may think youre a stalker.

[sith123]

but if you've never met her, how do you know what she looks like, as people can look a lot different in real life .

[ummmm]

Maybe she has lot's of pictures on facebook.

[sith123]

yeah, i know, but there has been a study and sometimes, especially girls, look nothing like they do on FB depending on the angles of the pics they take and all that

[ummmm]

We're talking uni students here. Not wanna be models...

[mungbeanz]

If she only has pictures of her face, it means she's a fatty.

[sith123]

i know, im talkin about uni students lol, but back to the question, if you want to, just be yourself

[sith123]

exactly my point mungbeanz :)

[boxtops]

Can't you ask amongst the other students, so you can actually get a look at her before you contact her? FB pictures can be misleading, people can post any pic, it doesn't have to be a good likeness.

[sith123]

exactly

[jomifl]

This obsession with pictures sounds a bit superficial, there may be a brain lurking somewhere in the background.

[sith123]

at least meet her before asking her out.