Firstly, how often do you want sex. And secondly, how often do you get sex. And based on these figures are you happy enough with your sex life or does it cause issues?
there is no anonymity though flob, over a period of years people have gotten to know each other and some are even friends on facebook using real names and pictures.
besides some people feel that discussing the mechanics of their sex life is something that should be kept between the couple.
A lot depends on health, I do not go into a slop if my wife says she does not feel like it, it has to be wanted by each person in a marriage / relationship, the trouble with most men, that their d--icks rule their heads, it does not pay the bills! does it?