Would You Date A Woman That Worked For A Telephone Sex Line?

[SurreyGuy]

Genuine question!

I'm chatting to a woman on a dating site who has just dropped that bombshell!

I find her attractive and she says that there is no genuine/heartfelt connection (or physical contact) with the callers, but I'm not sure that I'd like to date someone that did that job.

She says it wont be her job forever, but I've read so many things about this sort of thing morphing into something seedier, that I'm at a loss what to do!

Please help - without criticising me or slagging me off!

[Canary42]

Sorry not to respond to your cons question earlier B00, I've only just come back online. The cons really are related to one's sensitivities, and not in any way "physical" - one might for example shy away from the fact that one's sexual activities with this woman might next day be feeding the fantasies of a lone masturbator. Some people might not like this prospect.

[tonyav]

Yeah I remember that one boxy, great series.

[lcg]

yes - she's earning an honest living! and she has been honest. what's your problem?

[jim360]

Well it's not necessarily my number one choice of profession but hey, she's been honest about it (hopefully not making it up) so in that case maybe she would like to give you a chance and take things further than just chatting. If so, decide now if you are seriously uncomfortable with this and if so end it quickly before anyone gets hurt, but otherwise you ought to keep things going. I should be so lucky as to have this dilemma... anyway if you like her then I wouldn't let this end things.

[MadMen]

I'm so glad Lisa admitted to this first, as I didn't want to - but I too have done this... albeit many years ago.
At the time, it was a way to make a few extra quid, but it's not something I feel proud of, nor do many of my friends/family know about it.
It's not as seedy as it sounds. I would, literally, sit there in my PJs whilst my husband was out working during the night, and just chat.
You'd be surprised actually, lots of men would be really shy and would never actually get round to.. er... 'intimate chat'. I remember there was this one Irish guy who called every other night and just talked to me about his business. It was like chatting to a mate, until it got to the end when it would be a bit awkward and we'd be like "ok, er, I guess I'll be going". I never knew if he was expecting me to make the first 'move', or not.
Funnily enough, my husband never knew about it. I know for a fact he wouldn't have liked it though, and it's not something I'd ever be comfortable with either.

[Booldawg]

could be worse - you couldve met someone who admitted to working for a PPI claims line.

[jomifl]

Certainly not, my wife would be bl00dy annoyed, anyway what would we talk about?

[society]

"\\\Would You Date A Woman That Worked For A Telephone Sex Line?
Genuine question! \\\

Not bloody likely. "

Sqad, soon as I saw your first reply ^^^ I thought to myself how disappointing, is this the same Sqad? Then I saw your next response. LOL lol

"Are......apologies..........just read the question again.

Would i date her?...YES......would i bonk her?....YES....would i marry her?...NO."

lol lol

[andy-hughes]

Hey sqad - "Now my wife to be.....educated,a certain desire to "keep a good home" neatly dressed, a good taste in fashion, eager to succeed in her chosen profession or trade and what i would judge, a good example to my children..."

How's the weather over there in 1952?