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Cross-Dressing. Why?
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I can understand homosexuality, I can understand trans-gender, but I simply cannot understand why heterosexual men indulge in cross-dressing. Any thoughts that may enlighten me will be welcome.
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I think a lot of these later answers put into words what I feel better than I could have typed - in the same way you may spend an age explaining to a child why the sky is blue when they ask - often the questions we are presented with are best answered with a simple 'Just because...'
One of the best lessons I was ever taught was simply how to 'be' if only for ten minutes - no questions just gazing and 'being'.
One of the best lessons I was ever taught was simply how to 'be' if only for ten minutes - no questions just gazing and 'being'.
It isn't always about a fetish, Sqad...
I can't say I see much of a difference in principle, except that "transvestite" almost sounds a bit more official, ie "I am a cross-dresser" = "I occasionally wear clothes associated with the opposite gender", v. "I am a transvestite" = "I often wear clothes associated with the opposite gender".
I can't say I see much of a difference in principle, except that "transvestite" almost sounds a bit more official, ie "I am a cross-dresser" = "I occasionally wear clothes associated with the opposite gender", v. "I am a transvestite" = "I often wear clothes associated with the opposite gender".
to Sqad and those who want to know the difference....a crossdresser is a man who enjoys wearing women's wear (or certain items), tends to be sexually linked but not necessarily so - the homosexual or latent homosexual link there but, in many, not there at all. TVs want to dress and live as women - but they don't want to go onto the full programme of transformation what a transgender would - they don't associate themselves as being trapped in a male body all the time.
Often with a TV, the clothing has no direct sexual linkage as with women, other than attracting a partner - the split of sexuality - well that you can't objectively categorise and generalise. Some are gay, others straight hetero and many bisexual - as are a large part of the population, even if it latent.....sorry folk, its them genes and hormonal balance from both our parents and the pre-generations.....
Often with a TV, the clothing has no direct sexual linkage as with women, other than attracting a partner - the split of sexuality - well that you can't objectively categorise and generalise. Some are gay, others straight hetero and many bisexual - as are a large part of the population, even if it latent.....sorry folk, its them genes and hormonal balance from both our parents and the pre-generations.....
\\\\\Sqad is convinced that cross dressing has something to do with sex or getting some kind of thrill and I doubt he will ever be convinced of anything different.
That's Sqad for you!\\\
No, this is sqad for you:
Cross dressers are more common than you think.
99% of cross dressers start in response to a sexual feeling or thrill and like marriage, the initial flush of enthusiasm and excitement soon wears off and it becomes rather a way of life.
Has that cleared up some of sqad's thought about cross dressers RATTER?
That's Sqad for you!\\\
No, this is sqad for you:
Cross dressers are more common than you think.
99% of cross dressers start in response to a sexual feeling or thrill and like marriage, the initial flush of enthusiasm and excitement soon wears off and it becomes rather a way of life.
Has that cleared up some of sqad's thought about cross dressers RATTER?
