Do You Think She Likes Me?

[i-am_anonymous]

I like this girl and we have a lot in common. We both are home schooled, go to the same church, go to the same youth group at our church. The only thing is I am an introvert, she is social. She will sometimes complement me, say my name, say Hey or Hi, ask how my day is, offer to help me with dishes at youth group, say bye when I leave the place she is. We both help out at our church AWANA and one time when we were helping the kids remember their bible verses and she sat near the place where I usually sit. Then the kid she was helping came to me and asked what the date was. I then told him and then looked at her and she smiled and silently said "Thank you". Do you think she likes me? How do I tell her I like her? Do I send her a message? I know her older sister and we are sportive friends too and I trust her. Do I ask her if she thinks her sister likes me?

[dannyk13]

How old are you both?

[Tilly2]

Just sit by her and start talking. You seem to know her well enough to go and say, 'Hi'.

[i-am_anonymous]

@dannyk13 You think we are really young? No. High school age.

[i-am_anonymous]

@Jordyboy9 What?

[dannyk13]

Then ask her if she would like to go out with you.

[woofgang]

If you are interested ask her out. If she says yes you know she likes you.

[i-am_anonymous]

This is probably stupid but I don't want to be embarrassed and she look at me differently afterwards if she says no. And she might tell others and they might say something to me.

[i-am_anonymous]

But do you think she likes my from what i said in first post?

[Tilly2]

You need to toughen up a bit.

[dannyk13]

Don't be such a wooze, ask her, you have nothing to loose.

[Mexican18]

Anon. If you are scared of a knock back, I'm afraid you don't have much of a future with the opposite sex!

[albaqwerty]

ask her if she would like to go for lunch at a local cafe, if she says yes, that's great. If she says no, then your pride is saved to a degree.

[i-am_anonymous]

I can guess that you were or are nervous and scared when asking a girl.

[i-am_anonymous]

Okay so how do I ask her? What do I say?

[albaqwerty]

faint heart never won fair lady.

Just ask her if she'd like lunch or even just a drink at local cafe.

If she says no, not for a few days as she may be busy, give her your phone number and ask her to phone when she can make it.

[i-am_anonymous]

I just want to know what you think if you think she likes me before I ask her. I want to know a little before I ask.

[albaqwerty]

Don't say anything fancy or hi-faluting.

Just ask her if she would like to go for lunch or a drink at local cafe - simple.

[andy-hughes]

Working out if a girl is interested comes with experience, which means we all have to start somewhere.

Ask her out for something neutral, coffee, or the cinema. If she accepts, she obviously likes you as a friend but there may be nothing more in her acceptance than that.

When you have been out a couple of times, ask her to your home, or see if she asks you to hers.

If she accepts, you will start to get an impression of how she feels - friends, or something more.

The trick is, not to see something that is not there, simply because you would like it to be there!

There is one rule to remember about girls - if a girl is interested in you, she will let you know.

All you have to do is make sure that she is letting you know, and not that you wish she would, when she simply being nice.

Good luck!

[albaqwerty]

noooooo, not the cinema Andy - nothing worse than being stuck in a dark place where you can't talk to your 'date'
How would one know whether the film was of the genre that your date liked?
Keep it simple Anon, keep it simple.

Seems she does like you as she says Hi and mouthed 'thank you' for helping.