Would It Bother You If Someone Disliked You When You've Done Absolutely Nothing Wrong To Them?

[babycakes81]

Would it bother you if someone disliked you when you've done absolutely nothing wrong to them, but they hate you all because you do not fit their standard of beauty?

[scorpiojo]

No, not at all.

I wouldn't want someone so shallow as a friend.

[1ozzy]

No, happens all the time.

[LadyCG]

Ditto, 1ozzy.

[waterboatman]

Not a bit.

[cassa333]

If they are shallow enough to think beauty is more important then they would not make a very good friend.

What would happen if you were more beautiful than them? Or if you had an accident where you were physically disfigured after you knew them?

[david small]

It would irk me. People in general like to be liked. I would wonder, why the hostility? The put it down to chemistry or stupidity.

[dannyk13]

Only if I liked that person.

[Old_Geezer]

They'd have to have a very weird idea of beauty for that to be so.

Depends on circumstances, but generally, no. There are loads of folk that are an enigma to us sane individuals. It is said that it takes all sorts to make a world. I'm unsure that it does, but I'm sure we have all sorts anyway.

[woofgang]

No it wouldn’t bother me at all.....in my teen years it might have done.

[kvalidir]

No, beauty is very much subjective so I wouldn't care if they didn't find me beautiful, however I'd be worried about their mental health if they only liked people they consider to be beautiful, that shows a real shallowness that I'd be glad was revealed to me early on so I could avoid them. x

[-Talbot-]

Wouldn't bother me at all, I see it as one of my strengths.

[CrapAtCryptics]

ScorpioJo got it spot on - exactly how I feel - who gives a monkeys what they think.

[roopower]

No, it wouldn't. I'd concentrate on my real friends who like me for who I am

[maggiebee]

They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Wouldn't worry me a jot.

[Arksided]

I wouldn't give two hoots, I'm too good looking to be bothered.

Jesting aside, no it truly wouldn't bother me as I have taken to dislike some folk (Very rarely) with no bad reputation, had done nothing to me nothing to do with looks or appearance... TBH I can't explain why.

[ummmm]

Nope. They'd probably be the type of person I wouldn't like anyway.

[rowanwitch]

People don't hate people for things like that, it's not important enough. Stupid people might say they do. Are you being bullied over your looks?

[MallyJ]

I have never been that bothered if someone disliked me for whatever reason.....at the end of the day that person would be the loser by not having me as a friend....seriously I don't care at all. If this is an issue for you then thank whatever you may believe in that you have escaped having a dreadful, shallow person in your life and get on with enjoying yourself and working hard (had to say the last bit)!