How Do Trans Men Behave In Parties?are They Comfortable?do They Pick Up Girls? .

[kaththisuresh]

Women,has a trans man ever hit on you?What was your response?Trans men,please answer too.

[237SJ]

^ From the Indian subcontinent at a guess. Maybe people should exercise some cultural awareness before steaming in with their answer. Not everyone has Western attitudes.

[TheDevil]

How do you act if someone is interested in you and you are interested?

How do you act if someone is interested in you and you are not interested?

You turn them down because you’re not interested, you don’t have to be crude and go into depth as to why. Would you do that if a member of the opposite sex was interested in you? I would suspect not.

Those who don’t want to be at a party with a trans person need to get a grip. I’m sure the host after hearing these opinions wouldn’t what that mindset and negativity at the party.

[TheDevil]

When it comes to hitting on people, consent is critical.

[shoota]

I think that if I were a 21 year old trans person (going either way) I would fill my boots with whatever came my way.
If you are a pleasant, genuine, relaxed, smiley, friendly person people will respond to you better than if you are on the pick up gig.
Chill and let it happen.

[kaththisuresh]

@shoota Actually,I prefer to be male still thank you.Thing is,let me tell you my history.And at the end of this I'd like to ask a sort of question to you guys and help me.Please keep this confidential.I beg you.I'm trusting you with my life.And I have faith that as my friends,brothers and sisters,you'll guide me.Thing is right from my childhood,I didn't have any such 'feelings' of difference between me and other guys.I also had a rickshaw driver at home at the age of 12.Both my grandmother and my driver died one after the other when I was 12 years old.Till then I was a normal bright boy at school doing good at studies.Even women had called me somewhat good looking and cute.Then after that,I started to experience that I was not masculine enough.I started taking testosterone injections when I was 13.It continued till I was 16.Girls used to respond to me somewhat good.And one or two of them kissed me even.The problem started when I became 18.See,I took female injections thinking that maybe I was a woman so I didn't feel masculine enough.Enter the worst phase of my life.So I started taking these stuff and that was my downfall.I found women didnt seem to care for or get attracted to me.I'm 21 now and in the span of these three years,not even one girl has kissed me or touched me even.My long time girlfriend also mysteriously stopped talking to me.I started getting angry and stressed.And maybe,the last time I told you that I wanted to be a woman,I was under stress.I started out the year 2018 with testosterone injections again and promised myself that I would end this fiasco.So I started getting test injections and the thing was I needed to lose weight.Testosterone works well only if you lose weight(correct me if Im wrong).Or it gets converted to estrogen if you're fat.So yeah.That's my story.I'll show my pics to someone who is considerate enough and doesnt spread it behind my back.Tell me how I look.Please pm me if that feature exists in ab or add an answer.

[TheDevil]

It sounds like you went through quite a confusing time in your life and those around you didn't understand or were able to help you with. It's hard to support a person when they are confused. Especially if you have no exsperience in the subject that they're confused on.

[kaththisuresh]

@The Devil I did.Would you mind looking at some of my pictures and tell me how I look.Do I look like a guy?

[pixie374]

This isn't particularly "confidential" here, kath, it is a public site, that anyone can see. So please be careful what you are comfortable in posting x

[kaththisuresh]

@The Devil I understand.Thing is I feel like I'm going through a nightmare now in my life.It seems inexplicable.Im just going to go through with this last bout of testosterone and hope for the best.

[kaththisuresh]

@Pixie374 Thanks.Thing is if you didnt mind,could you look at my face pics and tell me what you think of me.Do I look feminine?I've been on tests for about a year and would like to see if it has helped me.

[pixie374]

Personally, I wouldn't post photos... or at least bear in mind that everyone can see them x

[Lie-in King]

Just a heads-up - from the Site Rules -

• Do not post any personal information belonging to you or others including full name, address or phone number as it can easily be misused by others. We strongly advise you against posting links to personal photographs.

[Lie-in King]

That's advisory, but worth taking note of IMO.

[TheDevil]

kaththisuresh, taking testosterone and hormones can affect your emotions and mood. Also, being the age you are, your mood and emotions will be all over the place. Take this into consideration and try to focus on more important things for now, such as financial security and a home.

Then, when you are in a position to understand yourself better you may have a different perspective on this topic.

[pixie374]

More importantly, how are you feeling now, kath?

[TheDevil]

I would not recommend putting photos on an anonymous forum but if you do, make sure to use 'ananonymous image uploader' such as imgbb

[Lie-in King]

TheDevil - you wouldn't recommend it, yet give advice on how to do it. Wow.

[AuntPollyGrey]

'Pick up girls? This isn't the 1970's you know.

[kaththisuresh]

@pixie374 I've not been doing my weight loss properly so my tests are not that good.And my test levels also makes it difficult for me at college.But otherwise fine.Thanks for the concern