right serious answer, My wife works in a shop, she is really chatty, outgoing always smiley and happy, I am working all day long with people, love chatting etc, but when we get home the last thing my wife wants to do is chat to other people, all she wants to do is kick off her shoes put on some comfortable clothes and relax watching some crap on the tele or we listen to some music and we chat to each other, as we have got little older this is more of a pattern, when we go down to the local pub, we like to just sit quietly and chat, BY ourselves, is this normal or are we ODD ?