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Lies...how much is too much?
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Hey guys,
A questions about lying, liars and how much is too much.
I have been thinking lately about lies (largely due to my partner telling lie after lie about small insignificant things), but do any of you put up with people telling lies? And if so, how much is too much?
Do you one day wake up and think "no more!" or do you just go with the flow?
My partner appears to be a compulsive liar about so many stupid small things. I have got to the point where I am considering leaving him because of it. To me I am at the end of the road. I am going by the good old motto...."if he's lying about this then what else is he lying about etc". Especially since we used to have such an open and honest relationship. We could literally talk about anything and not be offended, disturbed or embarrassed!
I am worried that maybe I am being too harsh and that I should just accept porkies? Even if I challenge him with outstanding evidence he'll still blindingly deny their is a lie anywhere. But on the other hand, I worry i'll one day just either believe anything he'll say or become 'numb'.
He would make a good politician. I'll give him that one!
Is/has anyone been in the same situation?
I can understand telling a few porkies but like i said, its got to the point where its just too often.
How much is too much?
Thanks all, for the help in advance! x
A questions about lying, liars and how much is too much.
I have been thinking lately about lies (largely due to my partner telling lie after lie about small insignificant things), but do any of you put up with people telling lies? And if so, how much is too much?
Do you one day wake up and think "no more!" or do you just go with the flow?
My partner appears to be a compulsive liar about so many stupid small things. I have got to the point where I am considering leaving him because of it. To me I am at the end of the road. I am going by the good old motto...."if he's lying about this then what else is he lying about etc". Especially since we used to have such an open and honest relationship. We could literally talk about anything and not be offended, disturbed or embarrassed!
I am worried that maybe I am being too harsh and that I should just accept porkies? Even if I challenge him with outstanding evidence he'll still blindingly deny their is a lie anywhere. But on the other hand, I worry i'll one day just either believe anything he'll say or become 'numb'.
He would make a good politician. I'll give him that one!
Is/has anyone been in the same situation?
I can understand telling a few porkies but like i said, its got to the point where its just too often.
How much is too much?
Thanks all, for the help in advance! x
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I know what you mean guys, one lie is too much. I think I am falling for the "but i love him too much to let one lie come between us". That sounds terrible really, especially since there has been about 2398 lies. Lol.
I am left a little paranoid, is he or isn't he etc. What bugs me most are the lies about something sooooo trivial such as what time he woke up. I mean come on! To be honest, i couldn't really give a damn what time he wakes up but why the need to lie?
and sara3, I have no idea why he is lying to me. We were always open. I encourage him to be open with me. But it just felt like, one day he told a lie and now he's hooked.
I just find it hard to understand any of it. And he knows how serious I am taking it yet it continues.
Shall I get rid? Or shant I? Who knows....
I know what you mean guys, one lie is too much. I think I am falling for the "but i love him too much to let one lie come between us". That sounds terrible really, especially since there has been about 2398 lies. Lol.
I am left a little paranoid, is he or isn't he etc. What bugs me most are the lies about something sooooo trivial such as what time he woke up. I mean come on! To be honest, i couldn't really give a damn what time he wakes up but why the need to lie?
and sara3, I have no idea why he is lying to me. We were always open. I encourage him to be open with me. But it just felt like, one day he told a lie and now he's hooked.
I just find it hard to understand any of it. And he knows how serious I am taking it yet it continues.
Shall I get rid? Or shant I? Who knows....