I'm with Andy here. Considering they disapprove of really nice things, like birthdays and Xmas, its hardly likely that they will terribly keen on a bit of hows-your-father between two chaps !
On the question of the word Gay it appears many homosexuals are complaining about the use of the word to describe them . I thought it was far more acceptable for them than the alternatives .
I'm not religious in the slightest, I don't believe in a 'God', but I don't like threads that are aimed at putting people into boxes, and solely aimed at mocking a certain group, whatever 'group' that may be.