I was talking about this to a man at the Soup kitchen on Thanksgiving and he said regarding the afterlife, that we consciously choose what happens to us he thinks before we die, some people just cease to be, some go to Christian heaven, some are reincarnated and try again, some see their loved ones again and relive their lives together etc but that it's the individual that chooses during life. He said that's why he tries to always maintain a positive point of view no matter what because he's convinced when he dies things will be better and as he wishes, and that if he's wrong then it simply doesn't matter because there will just be nothing and he won't know, but that he's sure he ha a soul that will outlive his body. I personally thought that was beautiful and I hope he's right x