Paigntonian - respect is a two way street.
I am tired of the endless 'You're to stupid to understand but God loves you anyway ...' patronising guff I receive from the fervent Christians on this site.
Their constant smug superiority, unwillingness to concede the possibility that they might be wrong, their insults, their sarcasm, and their evasion.
If you think the fevents don't attack atheists every bit as venomously as you suggest, stick around for another eighteen years or so, then you'll have experienced what I have experienced, and be in a position to comment from knowledge, rather than a vague idea, of how things actually work around here.