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Am I Just Overreacting Or Is My Reaction Ok?
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ok, so background, my brother and I were putting the ladder up and it almost fell on me. After that I was joking around saying how my life was 50/50 and almost died. Then all of a sudden he goes "wa man gihapoy value imo kinabuhi" which is bisaya for "your life has no value anyway" and I was a little shocked because it struck a hard spot, I've been quite depressed because I feel like I'm meaningless and useless, and how he said that almost brought me to tears, and he kept going on about how if one of us were to die, it should be me because I have no value and my life is meaningless. and I tried jokingly answering back (because I thought he was joking) how I should live since I'm younger and haven't found my purpose in life yet, and he goes "you think I'm already finished with mine?? at least I have a direction, you don't even know what you course to take for college, you're useless, so it should be you who dies" at that point I didn't know what to say, because, he was right. And at the very last he added "You can even die right now, and it'd be ok" and yeah, that tore me to pieces. And it resulted me to cutting myself again. I've been avoiding him since then (but that was only yesterday), I don't want to talk to him, nor do I want him to talk to me. I used to study in his room (because we have a small house, so I don't have a room, and just sleep in my parent's room and study in his room) and yesterday I picked up all my *** and transferred to my parent's room. I don't say anything to him whenever he tries to talk to me, and that's what' bugging me, am I just overreacting?? because it seems like he did nothing wrong, idk, please help me out, idk if I should keep ignoring him, or just let it go
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Life means becoming ups and down. But, this is your downtime, so never upset, let it go, always thinking about how to increase your knowledge and share good news always.
09:52 Thu 24th Feb 2022
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