That's how it used to be Oakleaf51.
Some of the posts were heartbreaking, but most of us had come to faith the hard way, that is via the occult, clinical depression, disabilities. bereavement, rough childhoods/mariages - you name it, one (or all) had been there, so could empathise with whatever the poster was going through. So were able to give something back to anyone who asked - and always with good manners, plus humour when needed, without the indulgence of verbal gymnastics.
That post was removed Philanthro. Can one get any lower than swearing, especially to a woman, I think not?