V Vicar - You're obviously an intelligent man, and I admire many of your observations, but I also think that perhaps because you're replying from a personal point of view which others might not agree with - then it leaves them as "the fallen ones" in your estimation. You're no more correct in what you say, than others might be with THEIR opinions, because until we leave this mortal coil, no one has any idea of what happens. You have strong beliefs, but so do those who don't believe in religion at all - and who's to say which of you are right? I know all sorts of people, from pagans to priests (well - one of the latter!), and all of them have different ideas of what's what. This is the beauty of debate, so that we can assess the opinions of others and discuss against our own. When my children weren't baptized, it caused a few raised eyebrows within the family, but my belief is that so long as they have a varied grounding on ALL beliefs, then they're able to take their chosen paths when they're older. I remember being "lectured" about the sanctity of marriage by a 14 year old girl who was a Jehovah's Witness. She merely repeated hand-pat what she'd been told by her elders - to which I calmly told her she had absolutely no idea of what she was talking about. Religions indoctrinate, and this is what I find hard to accept, particularly as these ideas & teachings are so varied. I think religion, as I said before, is a personal thing, as are all beliefs. I'm certainly not a bad mother just because I didn't want my children welcomed into the bosom of a particular faith. If I died tomorrow, my children would be well cared for by the family, and nothing'd be forced upon them in terms of religious teaching, apart from that which they learn at school (which is thankfully varied).
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