Seadragon, Again I can't speak for Beso, but the fact that you don't have much to do with religion doesn't frustrate me, and I'm definitely not cheesed off with you. I find it encouraging when people are interested enough to think about it and actually debate the subject, and I wish more would take the trouble to do it because that might just lead to a happier world.
I understand your sentiments concerning your idea of God - I've said similar things here myself. I'm not anti-spirituality - in fact I'm quite a spiritual person. I don't know if there is a God, but if there is it's my firm belief that it isn't the God of the Bible and the Koran. He is quite simply not the loving entity his followers claim him to be. He is a psychopathic interloper - and anyone who takes the time to study his history honestly will very soon come to realise that. You say a large proportion of believers don't believe in the nasty aspect of God, but nevertheless he is the basis of their faith, he is the one in whose name barbaric acts of terrorism are committed, he is the one whom people, from childhood, are taught to fear, and for those reasons alone I don't believe it is a good thing that any organised religion is tolerated because it impacts negatively upon the whole world, and will probably eventually destroy us all. What I am trying to get across to you is that you, on behalf of the followers of these religions, champion their belief in this God without, by your own admission, really knowing what it is you are championing.
If you'd like something to read, may I suggest for starters The End of Faith, by Sam Harris.