Man trouble!

[Rubyrose]

Ok we all know guys are confusing but this is taking the p!ss!

There is someone I like and have liked for months and we get on great and things have been up and down between us. We are good mates but sometimes we take it further. The way I have felt about them has been pretty consistant and hasn't changed much but they seem to be up and down. They know I like them and they continue to tell me that they only like me as a mate but if there situation was different then there might be a chance. But what I don't understand is.. why does this person constantly need to ask me what my feelings towards them are, only to continue telling me that they don't feel the same. Its like they need to be reminded of how much I like them.

The last few weeks I started to realise this and me and this person just ended up rowing all the time so I took some time out and decided not to speak to him for a week. Then we started chatting again and I realised that maybe my feelings for them had changed as I spent a week away from them and it didn't bother me. I was fine and missed them as a mate to chat to but realised I can easily manage without them there. But when I told them this.. they kept asking about my feelings for them again and asking if I loved them, blah blah blah. Everytime a slight bit of feeling was let out on my part they would say 'But I don't feel the same way. We are just mates now'!!!!! Whats going on? I am so confused!

[Rubyrose]

Awwwww Wardy. Remember when we got cyber married? Lol.

Why do we like the b@stards? Odd eh!

Lovliest dog in the kennels? Thanks! I am a pedigree. Lol.. and I know you hate all that eating in public stuff. :o)

[Ward-Minter]

Remember. Remember????? I celebrate our anniversary my lovely!!!

[Rubyrose]

Oh.. thats nice.. me too... remind me which date it is? I haven't forgotten.. honest.. I am just testing you... :oD

[Ward-Minter]

well I will celebrate it on Sept 29th. Close?

[Rubyrose]

Nope.. it was around October-Nov time I'm sure! It was that old InAPickle that set it up! I rejoined as Rubyrose on the 15th of September and you was mean to me until you saw my pic on Mingleville. I still remember that. Lol

[Ward-Minter]

memories Rubes. Sadly though, due to pride and a huge degree of self respect, the ladies of the world only get one chance. Oh Rubes, how I wished your pleasure.

Nevermind, one day I will meet a gorgeous filly who could match the eloquence and class this old captain deserves and longs for.

[Rubyrose]

Wardy, I believe everyone is allowed one mistake. I was in your hometown the other week too. I could happily live there with you ;o)

[Ward-Minter]

If only Rubes, if only. anyway i have to sign off. Be good Princess. X

[Rubyrose]

Goodbye Wardy hun. Chat soon my love.. xx ;o)

[dot.hawkes]

the definition of class:

WM calling rubes the loveliest dog in the kennel and rubes being flattered!

[Rubyrose]

Dot I think you may have a point! Lol

[peterd]

Jeez you lead a complicated life Ruby. You've probably had all the answers to this but here goes. What exactly do you want from this person? I'm guessing he's married ? You're obviously good friends so why not leave it at that ? Next time he asks try tellin him that you've not really missed him. You don't have to fall out with him over it.