My sons akward questions keep coming

[answerme!]

Hi eveyone i have already asked a few question sthat my son had asked me, and i am sorry if these offened anyone but hehas asked me another question which i do not know the answer to... He has asked if you have to pull the foreskin back before having sexual intercourse. any response welcome Cheers

[rugeleyboy]

serious answer........if he is going to be using a condom,he will have to pull the foreskin back to get it on?, unless i am putting em on wrong?

other answer.......if he pulls it back and forth quick enough he wont have to worry?? :~))

[joko]

you don't have to apologise for asking questions of this nature - its part of life. anyone who gets offended needs to get a grip

however, surely you must know the answer to this question.

i assume you have had sex at least once in order to produce your son - did your fella pull his back??

[orange-gnome]

My man doesn't pull his back... it just happens by itself with all the motion

[Hermit]

This is a serious issue as I remember bath time nightmares with my mum trying to get me to pull back my foreskin to wash and me saying it hurt. I later discovered that when you are a child the foreskin is still attached in the same way a finger nail is attached to the skin below -ouch. I mention that because if he is still young and having trouble retracting that may be why is worrying and you can tell him retraction should become possible by the end of puberty .

As for condoms, the instructions say you should retract before putting them on but personally, if i do that the ring gets stuck just under the crown and i can't get hold of it to carry on unrolling it. Far easier to put it on with the skin not retracted and the foreskin will still go back by itself beneath the condom during sex. Allegedly, doing it that way could cause splitting but I don't see how.

By the way, so long as we keep it clean and scientific, I think this should be the perfect forum for such questions. You generally get good honest advice from everyone.

[maximo]

Hi answerme. As far as I've "seen" ( I'm a girl ) when the time comes to put the condom on, the skin is already retracted due to the penis being erect. I have never seen it happen any other way. As far as your son maybe having trouble pulling the skin back all the way, and being worried about it, it is most likely going to sort itself out during puberty, over time. It is, after all, skin - and it is stretchable.