Monogamy

[nailit]

Is it unnatural?
Is marriage unnatural?
Biologically speaking, men are designed by nature to spread their seed far and wide, while women are designed to get impregnated by the best genes possible at any one time.
There are obviously many people that are happy mating for life with one partner (although even then it may be after having multiple sexual partners) but the amount of people that get divorced/seperate/have affairs seems to suggest that the westernised idea of marriage between one man and one woman

[nailit]

No body suggested that you view porn at every minute Islay.
I would suggest that the reason your partner views it tho is because he (evolutionary wise at least) is because he want to have sex with eveything he can.

[Islay]

*** nailit

[douglas9401]

Any chance you're confusing women with random receptacles, nailit, me old crusty sock? :)

[nailit]

just trying to work out what
//*** nailit //
means?

is it an intuellectual arguement that im not privy to?

[nailit]

//Any chance you're confusing women with random receptacles, nailit//
That could be a possibility douglas...

[woofgang]

you see nailit....what I am hearing here is an excuse....well more than one actually
monogamy is unnatural therefore ......
all men want to watch porn therefore......
all men want to go around having sex with everything (?) therefore.....

Now I am not sure why you feel the need to make excuses. No one is saying that you have to be married, monogamous or not, no one is saying you can’t spend your life watching porn and “having sex with everything (everything? really? be careful with the spiraliser) you can....
But just don’t try and make the argument that you do it because its natural....especially not the spiraliser

[nailit]

woofgang
//Now I am not sure why you feel the need to make excuses//
Eh? what exuses?
Pray tell...

[anneasquith]

I think you are fooling yourself, what you really want is a loving / trusting relationship. ( but you don't know/admit it .

[nailit]

/////I think you are fooling yourself, what you really want is a loving / trusting relationship. ( but you don't know/admit it . ////

No fooling. Openly admitted......

Its never goin to happen....

[jno]

well, here's one animal that's not exactly faithrul...

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2017/jan/10/snow-monkey-attempts-sex-with-deer-in-rare-example-of-interspecies-mating

[ummmm]

It's natural for some, obviously not for others.

I think nowadays so much emphasis is put on material things that we're not concentrating on long term compatibility.

[woofgang]

ummmm I think you are so right. It seems to me that in many cases the wedding is seen as more important than the marriage.

[ummmm]

I've seen it loads of times. People get together and start making arrangements while still in the honeymoon period. They buy a house, start decorating it, which can take a couple of years, then they decide to get married, which takes a lot of time and planning. Once it's all done all that's left is the two of them and that's when you start seeing the faults that a blind eye was turned to because they were so busy thinking about making the perfect life.